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I
went out with a single man 8 months ago, with whom I am still
crazy about. However, when I called him after the second date, I
got pressured into giving him a definite answer, of seeing him
or not. I wasn't able to give him a definite answer, and now he
won't return my calls. I can’t stop thinking about him.
Was there something I could have done? R.
R,
Your letter stated that your lover confessed his growing
feelings for you right when you had to hang up the phone. You
told him you would call him back in 15 minutes, however it was
closer to 45 minutes, and your lover never picked up nor called
you again. It sounds as if he is feeling very slighted
(not intentionally) by you. I suggest you physically go to
him and explain the circumstances. You should be very
demure-like, slide up to him, touch him on the elbow, and
whisper in his ear..."I really miss you, especially when you
____ " (fill the blank with a great sexual 'move' of his).
A man cannot resist a compliment to his sexual prowlness.
Let him know that you think of your sexual experience with him
often, and it always makes you smile. He will be back with
you in no time.
Anne Noble
Confidential Consultant |
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am a single guy who hasn't had much luck in the dating
department. When I see an attractive woman, I freeze when it
comes to introducing myself. How can I break the ice and
get the ball rolling without looking desperate?
Jose F., Capitola CA
Jose,
Confidence is the number one turn on for women. A man who
is confident and sincere usually always gets the girl.
Confidence can be learned by simple exercises. For
instance, carry plenty of your business cards with you at all
times. Write your home phone number (or personal cell) on
the back of the cards beforehand. When you see an
attractive lady, approach her with your business card in your
extended hand. Instinctively she will take it, and as she
does, say, "You have a beautiful smile. I'd love to take
you out. Call me". Then walk away, don't wait for
her to answer. Be mysterious. Treat it like a hit and run.
You can do ANYTHING for 5 seconds. I guarantee she will be
extremely flattered, and will tell her friends and family about
her encounter with you. Plus, chances are she will call
you as well. If not, well, nothing ventured ... nothing
gained!
Anne Noble
Confidential Consultant
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 Anne,
I'm an older gent and it's been a long time, three years and
nine months to be exact, since I have had sex with my wife.
She just doesn't have any sexual desire anymore. I
desperately want to have sex again with someone! How do
you suggest I go about this?
James T., Biloxi MS
James,
Your situation is not uncommon. As women age they often
lose the desire FOR sexual desire and treat their husbands like
a close girlfriend. There maybe a whole host of reasons why:
mid-life crisis, menopause, depression, weight gain, etc.
Whatever the reason, you are the one 'left holding the bag'.
I suggest you start your sexual experience off slowly, since it
has been nearly four years of no sexual contact. You don't
want to 'blow' your first sexual experience! Start by
getting a massage. Get used to being touched by a woman
again. Plus, this should also get you aroused, and will
determine if you need an ED drug (Viagra, Cialis, Levitra).
If you do need this medication, it's best to know BEFORE your
sexual experience! Good luck!
Anne Noble
Confidential Consultant
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